Foto Friday: This Moment (on Monday)

{this moment} - A Friday ritual. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember. -SouleMama

Fun Fact: Emus and kangaroos cannot walk backward, and for that reason they are featured on the Australian coat of arms.

Foto Friday: This Moment

{this moment} - A Friday ritual. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember. -SouleMama

Fun Fact:  The blood in the famous shower scene in Hitchcock's Psycho was in fact Hershey's chocolate syrup.

Foto Friday: This Moment

{this moment} - A Friday ritual. A single photo - no words - capturing a moment from the week. A simple, special, extraordinary moment. A moment I want to pause, savor and remember. -SouleMama

Fun Fact: Other than humans, black lemurs are the only primates that may have blue eyes.

Works for Me: Hi/Lo

It started with The Story of Us (1999-Willis, Pfeiffer).

The meat of the film is the implosion of a marriage and a painful separation.  But the dessert (and gift) is the introduction of a simple ritual: at the end of the day, everyone at the table tells the rest of the family his or her high and low moment of the day. Since then, we have participated in this ritual, on and off as a couple, and now with the kids.

The result is surprising insight into your spouse/child's character.  What causes the greatest daily joy and satisfaction?  What frustrates, annoys, and casts a shadow on the day?  Is A more impressed by what we did or what was said?  Does Z remember past an hour ago, and if so, what play activity is his favorite?  Mommy has accomplishment-based highs; Daddy has things-going-smoothly concerns.

It's a snapshot way to connect.  Whereas the oft-dreaded question, "what did you do at school today?" rarely ilicits much of a response (at least from children older than Kindergarten), the hi/lo question offers a way to "rate" a day-in-the-life.  To make judgements about what qualifies as best of the best and worst of the worst.  Perhaps even putting the entire day into perspective.

This year I'm recording our hi/lo's.  No pressure; we miss days here and there, and sometimes we can't squeeze a lot out of Z.  But I think some day in the future we will look over this history and smile.